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Notes to my future self
Be A Hyperrealist
Being hyperrealistic will help you choose your dreams wisely and then achieve them.
Be Radically Open-minded And Radically Transparent
Knowing when not to make your own decisions is one of the most important skills you can develop.
Go To The Pain Rather Than Avoid It
The key is to fail, learn, and improve quickly. Pain + Reflection = Progress
Encourage The Interest
Pay attention to what my kid is interested in. Encourage it and provide tools to reveal the interest.
Confronting Problems Is Painful
To willingly confront a problem early, before we are forced to confront it by circumstances, means to put aside something pleasant or less painful for something more painful.
Take The Time
Sometimes I find myself rushing through a problem I need to solve and I end up not being satisfied with the solution or myself. I would think that I am not good enough to solve this problem.
I Am A Valuable Person
The feeling of being valuable - "I am a valuable person" - is essential to mental health and is a cornerstone of self-discipline. It is a direct product of parental love.
Delaying Gratification
Delaying gratification is a process of scheduling the pain and pleasure of life in such a way as to enhance the pleasure by meeting and experiencing the pain first and getting it over with.
Love Is Everything
When we love something it is of value to us, and when something is of value to us we spend time with it, time enjoying it and time taking care of it.
Those Things That Hurt, Instruct.
Problems are the cutting edge that distinguishes between success and failure. They create our courage and our wisdom. It's only because of problems that we grow mentally and spiritually.
